Trick or Treat
Mother with teens and all the woo is me thoughts I encounter - mine and my childrens!Sunday, November 25, 2007
BARRIE . . .
I guess their relationship is okay. We had invited her to Thanksgiving - but - Kyle decided he was bored, Thanksgiving eve - climbed out his bedroom window - and got himself into trouble - damn teenagers - he is still in youth detention - goes to court on Wednesday - could be bad - my weekend has not been good !!!!! She spent the day with a gal friend and family.
I do not know about her clothing situation - (I am a thrift store shopper - I buy and sell on ebay - everybody needs a hobby - I bought her the cutest pair of pants, but Kyle wouldn't show her because he knew they wouldn't fit and he didn't want to hurt her feelings) - she does have a wishlist on her myspace saying she fits oldnavy maternity XS - I think it says - I was thinking about buying a couple of pairs - and leaving them at the Y anonymously - and maybe a small U of U maternity shirt. What exactly is her financial situation - do her parents pay to have her in the home - OR - . . .
I wanted to ask you a very personal psycholgical(sp) question - what is the mind set of a young person who is pregnant ( and in Barrie's case - attending high school ) - knowing that you are going to have to let that child go. Kyle did not know that Barrie was pregnant when he first met her - and - I often wonder how he feels mentally - other than the fact that he does care for her as much as a 16 year old male can - what his mind set on the situation is.
I know blah, blah, blah - please - do not be offended by anything in this note - this is coming from the bottom of my heart - I have not had a good Thanksgiving - and with my baby boy in trouble - I am hurting - and I wonder how the rest of humanity actually feels about their life!!!!!!!!!!!
There I finally made myself cry - I needed that! -;0( - Trixie - not a trade name - now let's laugh - Halloween is my birthday -
My kid's favorite YO momma joke: YO momma so ugly - they moved Halloween to her birthday!
BIOLOGICAL MOTHER . . . ANSWER
i was 20 when i was pregnant knowing that i couldn't affor to raise her without welfare assistance and i didn't want to do that to a child. i can't imagine what she is going through. i hope kyle doesn't start thiniing he'd be a good father. They are both too young for that! i was glad to hear that Barrie was giving the baby up for adoption. Even though it is my biological grandchild - i want to see her go to college - she's such an intelligent yougn lady.
Sorry to hear about your son escaping lkike that! i am scared to think about what my son will get up to at that age.
i don't think her parents are paying for her to stay there as she's on Wic and foodstamps. her dad did give her his credit card info to get herself some maternity clothes. her parents are jewish and her mom was being rather harsh when the pregnancy first came up and Barrie refused to abort.
Well, it's late and i need to get sleep for colelge classes tomorrow!
hope the rest of the week is better for you and that you get good news in court!
